Marcus' Grandma passed away on the morning of the first day of chinese new year...
Marcus' Grand Aunt passed away on the morning of the forth day of chinese new year...
My brother's girlfriend's mother passed away on the early morning of Valentines' Day at ard 5.05am...
Why are all these happening?

My brother's girlfriend's (JL), mother fell dwn at home and was admitted to NUH Sunday (13 Feb 2005) morning...was in critial condition....bleeding at the back of the brain...but cant be operated on coz the area was too huge...only can wait for the blood to stop bleeding...and yet it was still bleeding at 430pm since morning...14 Feb 2005, 12am ++...was told that her condition was stable....14 Feb 2005, 505am...received a sms frm my brother from NUH...telling me that JL's mother had passed away...

I am realli still in shock...It takes onli a fall...that everyone had in life...to take a life away...after so much struggling...I am thinking that JL's mother muz have realli tried her veri best to recover...knowing that the family needs her...the kids need her...it muz be realli veri veri serious and painful that she cant fight it any more...Almost similiar to my uncle's case when he passed away 2 years back...he fell and hit his forehead on the wash hand basin after a heart attack at home toilet...yet no one notice it till it was too late even though there were ppl home...I guess u nv know when its ur time to go...and when it is ur time...there is nthg u can do...

My brother is still in hospital...It will be tough for JL's family...especially her younger brother I guess...Coz he is like 14++ and dun like to study...At least JL's elder sis of my age, has a job and JL herself going to get her 'O' Level result...But her brother...*sign...Then her family seems to haf some problem...duno wat is it exactly...JL and my brother still waiting for 'O' Level result...I hope she do well...I hope JL pull thru this...Though I nt veri close to her..but I hope for the best for her in the future...Hope she take this as a test in life and pull thru it...Take it as a test to bind the family together and do herself and her mother proud in the future...It is a high priced test...But she has no choice and has to pull thru it....